Don't be afraid to define things on your own terms – after all, definitions belong to the definers!

 "Definitions belong to the definers, not the defined." — Toni Morrison

Who gets to define our world? It's a fascinating question.

We often rely on dictionaries and established definitions, but remember the power to define lies with the definers. This means we, as individuals, can shape our own understanding of concepts like success, beauty, and love.

Recognizing that these definitions are subjective and vary from person to person is crucial. What might be considered "success" for one person might be different for another. Similarly, our perceptions of beauty and love are deeply personal.

Of course, this idea also has implications for more serious matters. For example, who defines what is considered "normal" or "acceptable" in society? The answer is that those in positions of power often have a significant influence on these definitions. This is why it's so important for diverse voices and perspectives to be included in conversations about what is considered normal or acceptable. After all, if definitions belong to the definers, then a wide range of voices must be included in the defining process.

So, the next time you encounter a definition that doesn't resonate, remember your power to shape your own reality. Embrace your unique perspective and challenge narrow-minded definitions. After all, you are the author of your own story.